Men's Sexual Wellness

Introduction

Sex is different for everyone–but what we can all agree on is that it should be safe, comfortable, and pleasurable for everyone involved! In this blog, we specifically look at different men’s sexual health products, such as condoms, lubrication, delay spray, Viagra, and sex toys.


Condoms

We offer a variety of condoms, which help to prevent pregnancy and reduce the risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs), and which can also elevate your sexual experience with your partner.

All the condoms we currently offer are “external” or “male” condoms which go over the penis. They can be used for vaginal, anal, or oral sex.

It’s important to look at what a condom is made of prior to using it, in case you or your partner are allergic or in case you are also using a lubricant during sex.

Many condoms are made of latex, which some people are allergic to. If you or your partner are allergic to latex, you should instead use a latex-free condom.

Latex condoms should never be used with oil-based lubricants, as oil can damage latex and cause them to break or make them less effective. Instead, you should use a water-based or silicone-based lubricant with a latex condom.


Some condoms, such as Durex Pleasure Me Ribbed & Dotted or Skins Dots & Ribs, are textured, which can provide extra pleasure for both the wearer and their partner by changing the sensations you both experience. Both these products are made from latex.

We also offer Durex Strawberry Condoms, which are a popular flavoured condom with an attractive scent and taste. This product is made from latex.

Skins Ultra Thin condoms are specially designed to be clear and have a natural feeling, with an incredibly thin latex barrier that offers you the same level of protection as a regular condom. They offer a very natural feeling sexual experience.

If you’re unsure what you or your partner might like, we carry a Skins bundle, offering both Ultra Thin and Dots & Ribs condoms, so you can try different things.

It’s also important to keep in mind that penis size and condom size must work together–for a good fit (ensuring proper protection) and the best sexual experience possible. We carry Extra Large Skins, made from premium latex, for men who need a larger size condom.

You should never reuse a condom (always use a new condom, every time), and you should always ensure that the condom packet has not been damaged or has been stored in an area that is not temperature controlled. Never use an expired condom, and always follow the instructions for putting on a condom correctly. Reputable condoms should have packets marked with a European CE or UKCA mark, indicating that they have been tested to high safety standards.


Lubrication

Personal lubricants, or lube, are commonly used during sexual activity to help reduce friction and irritation. Lubrication can be used during vaginal sex, anal sex, sex toy play with or without a partner, and masturbation, helping make sex and sexual activities more enjoyable for many people.

We carry K-Y Jelly, a widely recognized and trusted personal lubricant which can help to ensure both pleasure and comfort during sexual activity. K-Y Jelly is water-based and is clear and odourless; it is also designed to be non-greasy, providing a smooth, natural feel. Its water-based formula helps it to be compatible with your body’s natural moisture and makes it both easy to apply and rinse off. Furthermore, the fact that it is water-based means it is safe to use with condoms and sex toys, which is not always the case with lubricants using other bases.

You should always be sure to check all lubrication ingredients prior to use, and avoid using these products if you or your partner are allergic or sensitive. Be sure to note whether the lubricant you have chosen is safe to use with condoms, diaphragms, and sex toys. Oil-based lubricants should never be used with latex condoms, as they can cause them to be less effective or to break.


Delay spray

“Delay spray” is a topical, desensitising spray applied directly to the penis shortly before sex (usually 5 to 15 minutes before intercourse). It helps to reduce penis sensitivity, which may in turn help to prolong sexual activity before ejaculation–helping both men who want to “last longer” as well as men who tend to find they ejaculate prematurely.

We offer both Stud 100 Delay Spray, which is lidocaine based, and Skins Delay Spray, which is made from a blend of natural ingredients and is pH balanced. 

Be sure to check all ingredients prior to applying, and do not use these products if you or your partner are allergic or sensitive. Follow all provided instructions.


Viagra

If you struggle with erectile dysfunction, or ED–characterised by having difficulty getting and keeping an erection prior to and during sex–a medication such as Viagra (sildenafil) may help by promoting blood flow to your penis.

We offer packs of 4 tablets as well as 8 tablets for Viagra. You must complete a questionnaire (which will be reviewed by our pharmacist) prior to your order being approved.

If ED is a recurring issue for you, you should first speak with a doctor to rule out common issues and conditions which may be contributing to or causing your ED, such as high blood pressure, high cholesterol, depression, anxiety, diabetes, or hormone problems.


Sex toys

Products such as the Skins Vibrator Ring can change things up in the bedroom. Battery-powered, this stretchy ring, which goes around the base of the penis, can last for 30-40 minutes. Its vibrations, combined with its textured bumps and ticklers, help to provide increased sensations and pleasure during sex.


In summary

There are many different products available which can help to make sex safer, more comfortable, and more pleasurable for you and your partner. In all instances, you should be sure to check ingredients to ensure that you and your partner aren’t allergic to anything, and you should always follow application and/or usage instructions.

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